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Advice Every Mom And Dad Can Use


By Vivian Prichard




As the parent of a young child one of the most important things to take into consideration is how to "childproof" your home. Make a checklist of items in the home that need to be childproofed. Avoid sharp edges on desks and tables and don't leave out small gadgets that a child can swallow. Make sure all cupboards and cabinets are both out of reach and securely fastened. You can never take too many precautions when it comes to the safety of your child.

Being a good listener is a very important skill that every parent should have. Your child will feel more comfortable talking to you and therefore will talk to you more if the child knows that you are always willing to listen. Parents should start to listen to their child as soon as they are able to speak so that the child will grow up knowing that their parents are always there to listen to them.

As kids get to be older, they can still have the same difficulty in calming down as they had when they were small babies. You can provide them with a place to calm themselves by throwing a blanket over a table to give them a safe cocoon type place to regroup.

Wear your baby instead of using a stroller. Wearing a baby means you don't have to make room in the car for a big stroller. Further, it means that you don't have to push a heavy stroller through the mall. A baby who is worn also feels safe and secure next to their parent's skin.

To potty train your child within a couple of days, consider having a no-diaper day during which your child runs around bottomless. While it may lead to a few messes, it helps your child to become aware of the urge and sensation of eliminating, which he or she cannot really experience in a diaper. Many children train very quickly this way.

If your baby is breastfeeding, make sure that your child's pediatrician or family doctor uses the World Health Organization growth charts intended for breastfed babies. Your baby may grow differently from formula-fed babies and these charts, better reflect the standard growth patterns for infants and toddlers that are nursing.

An important tip to consider in terms of parenting is to make sure that you take care of yourself first. While this may sound selfish at first, you need to make sure that you are in a good condition to care for your children both in mind and body.

Start teaching your child to do chores at a young age. Even a 3-year-old can be taught to do basic chores, like feeding the dog or picking up toys. This will instill in your child the idea that he plays an important role in the family. It will boost his self-esteem.

Always remember how much your children enrich your life. There will be times that you are frustrated, but it is important to hug and kiss your kids regardless of the kind of day you are having. Make sure they know how lucky you feel to be their parent. These simple actions will lift your mood and make your children feel loved.

The intent of the tips provided above is not to tell you how to raise your children. Instead, these tips are only intended to provide direction in how to go about optimizing the process. With clear goals and directions in mind, it is much easier to interact with our children. This is true whether we are interacting deciding what they should eat for dinner or who they should date.




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